I guess nice and normal does not work so well for me… I texted M and asked if he wanted to get together for another round of chess. The subsequent exchange of texts uncovered the hard truth – M was rejecting me. I was somewhat surprised only because I thought the enjoyment of our first date was mutual. He did make a statement that really hurt though… He said it seemed like all I wanted was sex. He already has someone to have sex with. He is looking for a relationship. Yes, I did straddle him on the couch (but only because I consider that the ultimate position to really experience a make-out session in) AND he kissed me first!
Oh well. Guess I need to curb my nympho tendencies when I meet men from nice, normal dating sites.
But I also look at rejection as opportunity, so I took it as an opportunity to text Toastmaster telling him what I want him to do to me the next time we’re together!