Finally! I saw Sig again for a long weekend and it was as good as ever. This long distance love is so difficult. When you find your soul mate why would “life” make it so you cannot be together and live happily ever after. It is not fair especially when you know in your heart, you are with your perfect partner.
It was kinda funny and it really made me give it some thought…. but Sig was looking through my suitcase and discovered all the sexual toys I had brought along on the trip. Maybe it was the fact Sig and I have been together 10+ years and/or the fact our sexual toy experience is limited to my dildo, but Sig started laughing when he saw all the toys. I actually joined him in laughing only because I could never in a million years imagine using nipple clamps on Sig, although with Legend, it was completely second nature.
Do not get me wrong. Sig and I have completely amazing sex, but it got me thinking that sexuality is a very complex thing. Especially for a woman. And especially for a nympho. I came to the conclusion that there is nothing wrong with having multiple men/couples each fulfilling my assorted sexual needs. In fact, I do not think one person could ever fulfill me completely. I need multiple people only because my sexuality is my absolute essence. It shapes me and makes me who I am.
Sig is not like this. He cannot relate, for he would be completely content with being with one person for the rest of his life. Sig, however, respects the fact that this is who I am and he lets me “do my thing”. Legend, on the other hand, can relate, for I think we are similar in this respect. We have an appreciation for each other because we have this shared characteristic.