Harold propositioned me for a fuck next Monday. I knew it was coming knowing he is unhappy in his marriage yet again. What is interesting is I had explicitly stated in one of our previous emails that I do not mess around with married men unless they have permission to play. First off, I really value the trust factor in a marriage. You should be able to trust that your partner is not cheating on you. I know it doesn’t always work that way, but I still have this grandiose and somewhat unrealistic view of marriage. Another thing is I would never want to be the spouse that’s being cheated on especially if I didn’t have a clue. Plus I am a pretty laid-back, easy-going person. Cheating entails sneaking around, stress, lies, etc… Not my style. And most importantly, I have SO many play opportunities with single men and couples, why would I even consider a married man!
Harold got a bit pissed. I told him it was nothing personal, but these are the rules.