I was excited to be meeting a couple tonight with Legend. Granted I enjoy meeting new people and I can certainly hold my own in terms of carrying on a conversation, but he definitely adds a nice element. Legend took me aside ahead of time and gave me some words of wisdom that I will not forget…
He said that in couple’s play, it is the woman who makes the decision, so that is who I need to impress and that is who I need to focus my attention on. Absolutely brilliant! When I look at my recent couple’s experiences (Couple 1 and Couple 2), I probably could have done things differently. In general, because most of my close friends are guys, I always feel much more comfortable with the guy. I need to change my strategy a bit realizing guys are a given, it is the woman who makes or breaks the deal. I absolutely love Legend’s wisdom when it comes to the swinger’s scene. I am a bit clueless at times when it comes to this stuff.
We had a good time with the couple, but I would certainly not call it an instant “love connection”. I did take Legend’s advice and did some serious “girl bonding” in the bathroom with the woman. It must have worked because Legend said (and I missed this) that at the end of the night, the woman slipped her husband a note that said “Let’s play”. Very cool! I must admit I was seriously distracted for most of the night though… Legend was looking so amazingly hot, that although I was interested in the woman, it was Legend’s clothes, not the woman’s, that I wanted to rip off.
Not sure if we will be seeing Couple 3 again. Regardless, Legend and I had a great make-out session in the car afterwards!