I met another new couple tonight – Couple 8 (B & J). They were an extremely attractive couple, but the most frustrating thing for me is I know that Sig and I would have hit it off beyond belief with this couple. Sig and I tried the couple thing in the past, but we never succeeded which is why we gave up. It is beyond difficult to find two couples where there is mutual chemistry between all four people. I really believe it would have been different with this couple. I kept wishing Sig was there because B is a big fisherman just like Sig.
I found both B & J very attractive and we hit it off in terms of being on the same level of sense of humor. As I meet more people, I find that being on the same wavelength in terms of sarcasm, humor and wit is almost more important than the initial attraction. Just this nympho’s observations…
I have been questioning my swinging habits lately, wondering if it is really okay to play alone or if you should only play as a couple. It was refreshing to find that B & J play both alone and together. They are both okay with it and it makes them a better couple because of it. I asked them about it, only because I have been questioning myself on it and they said it definitely depends on the couple.
I received the ultimate compliment when J said to me that she would be okay me playing as a couple with them, but she would also be okay with me just playing with B. Wow! I would so love to get with this couple again.