This is one of those nights where I realized the sheer power of sexual chemistry. It does not take conventional factors such as looks, personality or wit into play. It is something so much more all-encompassing that I cannot even put my finger on. Tale of two guys, two second dates…
Take T from last night. His credentials are so blatantly “good match”, “great catch” “right-on”. He is good looking, intelligent, outgoing, witty. But I just do not feel the urge to rip his clothes off. Our make-out session last night was perfunctory; I wanted it to be done so I could Skype Sig.
Then there is J from tonight. Balding and a bit socially inept, but this man is truly a work-of-art in terms of having a beautiful body. I find him attractive but in an “I really do not know why” sort of way. It must be that nerd factor which does me in every time. J was in town for a training session so I invited him over for dinner. We warmed up with drinks on the deck and then I made dinner while he watched me. As we sat down to dinner, he got up and walked to the other side of the table where I was sitting and kissed me. It totally caught me off guard but WOW! After dinner we were in the kitchen cleaning up. J was standing in the same spot T was last night, but I was absolutely overcome with this urge to kiss him… so I did. We started making out. The kisses were so hot. We took it to the couch where he proceeded to eat me out. For such a geeky looking guy, he was an amazing pussy eater. We took it to the bedroom. The minute I saw him naked, I established a new house rule – if you have <10% body fat and you are in my house, you must shed every ounce of clothing immediately! He is a beautiful man. He is long and lean and ripped. He has the most amazing hands and feet. He could easily be a model for either. The night ended simply with some mutual masturbation but it was oh so nice.
Off to go practice half hitch knots… Legend is coming over tomorrow and it is my turn to tie him up!